15 Great Epigraphs to Inspire Your Theme for a New Year

Epigraphs are a funny kind of thing. For a body of work as insular as a book, an author choosing to begin one’s own words with the words of another, the inclusion of an epigraph is akin to appointing a gatekeeper at watch. It may have taken me a full week and some change to firm up and put, pen to paper, an epigraph for my agenda and theme this year, but I found mine.

The older I get, the less impressed I become with originality. These days, I’m far more moved by authenticity. Attempts at originality can often feel forced and precious, but authenticity as a quiet resonance that never fails to stir me. (Big Magic, by Elizabeth Gilbert)

Much like my love for digesting first lines of novels, and some memoirs, I look to epigraphs as a clue. A key, mind you, that will help me to access deeper meaning and messaging of the author. For a memoir essay I submitted for publication years ago, I led my own story with an epigraph.

Much like an amuse-bouche, a well chosen epigraph gives a delicious promise of what is yet to come.

Epigraphs may seem trivial and trite, but I look to them as an indication of what was inspirational to the author during, or through the result of, creating the book, essay, or poem.

Read on for 15 great epigraphs to inspire your own plans for this new year.

You are all a lost generation. — Gertrude Stein in conversation (The Sun Also Rises, by Ernest Hemingway)

In the desert there is no sign that says, Thou shalt not eat stones. — Sufi proverb (The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood)

Fairy tales are more than true: not because they tell us that dragons exist, but because they tell us dragons can be beaten. –C.K. Chesterton (Coraline by Neil Gaiman)

If they give you ruled paper, write the other way. — Juan Ramón Jiménez (Fahrenheit 451, by Ray Bradbury)

Then wear the gold hat, if that will move her; If you can bounce high, bounce for her too, Till she cry “Lover, gold-hatted, high-bouncing lover, I must have you!” — Thomas Parke D’Invilliers (The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald)

… and so who are you, after all?

— I am part of the power which forever wills evil and forever works good. — Goethe’s Faust (The Master and Margarita by Mikhail Bulgakov)

Lawyers, I suppose, were children once. — Charles Lamb (To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee)

The reader should realize himself that it could not have happened otherwise, and that to give him any other name was quite out of the question. — Nikolai Gogol, The Overcoat (The Namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri)

No one knows how to love anybody’s trouble. — Frank Stanford (Look! Look! Feathers by Mike Young)

Death is but crossing the world, as friends do the seas; they live in one another still. For they must needs be present, that love and live in that which is omnipresent. In this divine glass, they see face to face; and their converse is free, as well as pure. This is the comfort of friends, that though they may be said to die, yet their friendship and society are, in the best sense, ever present, because immortal. — William Penn, More Fruits of Solitude (Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollows by J.K. Rowling)

I learned courage from Buddha, Jesus, Lincoln, Einstein, and Cary Grant. — Miss Peggy Lee (Slouching Towards Bethlehem by Joan Didion)

The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning, but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth. — Ecclesiastes (The House of Mirth by Edith Wharton)

Did I request thee, Maker, from my clay

To mould me Man, did I solicit thee

From darkness to promote me? — Paradise Lost, X, 743-45 (Frankenstein by Mary Shelley)

Behind every great fortune there is a crime. — Balzac (The Godfather by Mario Puzo)

NOTICE
Persons attempting to find a motive in this narrative will be prosecuted; persons attempting to find a moral in it will be banished; persons attempting to find a plot in it will be shot.

BY ORDER OF THE AUTHOR
Per G.G., Chief of Ordnance. — (The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, Mark Twain)

My Own True North - 15 Great Epigraphs to Inspire Your New Year

And one more, a bonus, because I love Tom Robbins so dang much, and I could devote a list entirely to the brilliance of his use of epilogues. And, of course, it must be of Kafka, who I read ridiculously early in life, and who ignited my obsessive love of literature.

You don’t need to leave your room.
Remain sitting at your table and listen.
Don’t even listen, simply wait. Don’t even wait.
Be still and solitary.
The world will freely offer itself to you.
To be unmasked, it has no choice.
It will roll in ecstasy at your feet. —Franz Kafka (Still Life With Woodpecker by Tom Robbins)

What is your favorite epigraph? Better yet, what is leading your inspiration this year?

XO, Jennifer

15 great epigraphs from litrature to inspire you my own true north

15 great epigraphs from literature to inspire you - My Own True North

 

15 Great Epigraphs in LIterature to Inspire You - My Own True North

 

15 Great Epigraphs in LIterature to Inspire You - My Own True North

 

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As We Approach Winter Solstice – Taking Time for Yourself

I’ve been fully submerged in teaching, writing, and researching new work opportunities. It is true that I have been looking for a long while. As much as I am ready to return to work, I did not radically dismantle my life last year so I could jump back into a similar situation of overwhelm and undervalue. All too keenly aware of a slower time table than I wanted for my next transition, my intention and specificity will remain. Late December always brings me especially reflective mind wanderings. As I write, I look out the window of my office to the waning, foggy, light. Tonight is the Winter Solstice.

Winter is coming. The long night. No, really. Tonight, the longest night of our year will be here. The northern axis will begin shifting toward the sun when we wake in the morning. Our days will slowly begin to get longer.

As We Approach Winter Solstice - Taking Time for Yourself

Tonight is an especially beautiful time for personal reflection and looking inward.

There’s something about the Winter Solstice that pulls to me. This darkest day and longest night of the year is a personal invitation to look into yourself and see what you want to set right, straight, and out for the days, and year, ahead.

Today has been particularly ponder-filled, for me. Tomorrow marks one week to a milestone birthday. I’ve been taking personal inventory rather heavily this year. In my social solitude, there has been much time for personal thought.

I think of winter as a season of regeneration of energy. Location helps. Situated within a cold state, with a winter storm on the horizon promising sub zero temperatures, I watch birds and squirrels busy themselves among bare branches of trees. I’m witness to activity I don’t see in Spring, Summer, and the better part of Fall. The physical transformation is visible.

A steady reminder of my own opportunity to turn inward, reflect, redraw energy, and prepare for cyclical regeneration.

Tonight, give yourself some quiet space.

Even if you only have a moment or two, give that much to yourself. What calls to you, and what will you call out to? In a season so often aligned with an over abundance of everything, make a slight break in the chaos. This night is about our Earth’s balance. And it is good enough for your balance, too.

Take a cue from nature. Rabbits and bears snuggle in their burrows. Frogs and lizards bury themselves in mud. They slow their metabolism to a crawl. Trees and plants have shed their leaves. For them, there is no one to impress. They receive the shifting season as they need – with rest.

As We Approach Winter Solstice - Taking Time for Yourself

Where there is darkness, there is light.

On this darkest night, consider your light.

Turn of the back-lit phone. Light a candle. The warm flicker of that flame has the capacity to help you center and be the center of your attention tonight than anything in your phone, tablet, or computer.

Nature’s first green is gold,

Her hardest hue to hold,

Her early leaf’s a flower;

But only so an hour.

Then leaf subsides to leaf.

So Eden sank to grief,

So dawn sank down to day.

Nothing gold can stay.

~Robert Frost

I hope you have a happy Winter Solstice and coziest start to your new season!

XO, Jennifer

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The Best Southern Novels to Inspire Your Late Summer Reading List

There’s no denying a checkered and dark history precedes the American South I love so much. Built on the backs of slaves, Ground Zero of the U.S.’s Civil Rights Movement, the stigma of racism, poverty, and ignorance remains. The region also has a staggering number of intellectuals and some of our most beloved stories and storytellers hail from the area. The South should not be defined only by its failings and the ugliness; there is as much spiritual, intellectual, and creative beauty as deep as roots of giant oak trees.

Humid Southern summers bring afternoon thunderheads, mockingbird and yellowhammer concertos, peaches bigger than a fist and watermelons as big as your torso, and in my case, very large hair that refuses to be tamed in the intensity of this moisture. One can very easily fall into the seduction of the season, primed and lulled by the heat. Shaded porches are a must, as is, also in my case, Benadryl and cortisone for my growing collection of bug bites on my feet and ankles I get from walking barefoot in the sod fields and wooded trails on the farm.

Lazy summer days are meant for relaxing in literature. While I count down my final weeks in this quiet, little town in the middle of Alabama, here are some of the best Southern novels you can add to your reading list.

best summer novels for late summer reading

The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain

“If you tell the truth you do not need a good memory!”

Not without controversy, Huck and Jim’s saga has been banned in some schools and libraries. The story of Jim’s plight as an escaped slave is hard to handle, for some, but it stands on its own as an example of American literature in its finest form and is a window to the past reminding us of once was. Rediscovering this book as an adult was one of my highlights of the year.

Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Café by Fannie Flagg

“You know, a heart can be broken, but it still keeps a-beating just the same.”

Weaving together past and present (1980’s) and examining the different layers and forms of female friendship, Fried Green Tomatoes gives representation to women in middle age, and told with so much wit and rich details in characters. Don’t read on an empty stomach, but if you do, not to worry. A solid recipe for the namesake tomatoes, along with other Whistlestop Café features, can be found at the back of the book.

All the King’s Men by Robert Penn Warren

“For whatever you live is life.”

Warren received a Pulitzer Prize for this novel and the film version earned an Best Picture Oscar, so plainly put, this is American storytelling at the highest level. All actions have consequences. A person cannot stand as a mere, emotionally detached observer but must take action in life.

best southern novels for late summer reading list

The Awakening by Kate Chopin

“To be an artist includes much; one must possess many gift -absolute gifts- which have not been acquired by one’s effort. And, moreover, to succeed, the artist must possess the courageous soul.”

Edna Pontellier is possibly the first liberated woman in American literature. A New Orleans housewife falls in love when on a vacation and realizes, upon her return home, she cannot devote herself to the social expectations of her. A moving chronicle of her embracing independence and self discovery, this is a must for any #YesSheCan minded thinker.

Big Fish by Daniel Wallace

“You’re not necessarily supposed to believe it…You’re just supposed to believe in it.”

Tim Burton did a fantastic job translating the book into the film, but like many movies, the book stands alone! This classic father-son relationship study is imaginative and, yes, includes a very big fish.

Beloved by Toni Morrison

“You are your best thing”

Okay, so this is cheating a little bit but I’m including because the story features the aftermath and terrifying consequences of slavery in a post-war (yes, the “War of Northern Aggression” AKA the Civil War). I’ll not even go into the plot beyond this is haunting and stirring, and it’s going to stay with you after you turn that final page. This book is also, for me, a pivotal point in my young adult life when I first discovered my voice for empathy and representation.

The Color Purple by Alice Walker

“I think it pisses God off if you walk by the color purple in a field somewhere and don’t notice it. People think pleasing God is all God cares about. But any fool living in the world can see it always trying to please us back.”

A Pulitzer Prize winner, the National Book Aware for Fiction winner, and close to two dozen combined Oscar and Tony nominations for the respective film and musical adaptations, The Color of Purple is as controversial as it is loved. Heavily depicting violence that, at moments, is hard to face, it is an honest, and beautiful portrayal of the life of a young, poor, black girl living in the South in the 1930’s following her through her adulthood. 

best southern novels for late summer reading

Gone with the Wind by Margaret Mitchell

“Until you’ve lost your reputation, you never realize what a burden it was or what freedom really is.”

Mitchell won a Pulitzer Prize and should we dare to count the Oscars? Yes, the story is known – so known – but if you haven’t read the novel that was once condemned by the Vaticam, well then, you don’t know the saga of Scarlett or the plight of Melanie, or the dignified scallywag, Rhett Butler.

Fun and unrelated fact: when my friend referred to her new boyfriend (now husband) as Rhett Butler, I thought it was her code name for an exceptionally dreamy suiter. Well, he was, and that is his name.

Interview with the Vampire by Anne Rice

“And I realized that I’d tolerated him this long because of self-doubt.”

The queen of Southern Gothic and vampire stories, Rice has numerous series set in and around New Orleans. Interview with the Vampire was the world’s introduction to “The Brat Prince,” the antihero we all are going to fall in love with, sooner or later.

The Prince of Tides by Pat Conroy

“You get a little moody sometimes but I think that’s because you like to read. People that like to read are always a little fucked up.”

You know when Barbara Streisand takes on a role to portray a character in a film that there is a story worth seeing. In this case, the story is also, very much, worth reading. Conroy’s story about the lives of a South Carolinan family is the original claim of Lowcountry setting. A story of sibling love, family trauma, and recovery. It’s so lovely.

More to come of the best Southern novels to inspire your daydream south of the Mason-Dixon line. What’s your favorite Southern title feature?

 

XO, Jennifer

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Make a Visit to the Frida Kahlo Museum | Casa Azul

La Casa Azul… Frida Kahlo’s childhood home in Coyoacán, Mexico City became her studio and residence is now Museo Frida Kahlo. Frida left a deep impression on the world and certainly left a lasting mark on me. My time in Mexico City was limited to one week. The one agenda I insisted on making happen when I was in my maiden visit to CDMX was to venture south to the colorful Coyoacán neighborhood to unabashedly swoon and fawn. With good reason, make a visit to the Frida Kahlo Museum – it is not a place to be missed when you find yourself in Mexico City. 

Today is her birthday, by the way. She would be 110 today. Instead, she died 6 days after her 47th birthday.

Frida Kahlo Museum

Some practical tips:

Here are a few ways to make your visit to Museo Frida Kahlo smooth and stress free!

*Ticket prices are about 10% higher on weekends than week days ($220.00 pesos compared to $200.00 pesos during week days for non-Mexican citizens).

Frida Kahlo Museum
Go as early in the day as you can reasonably make it.

The museum will get busier as the day goes on, regardless of day of the week. I asked museum staff and they confirmed every day is bananas with the crowd. I went on a Wednesday and arrived at the museum about an hour after opening. And it was so busy. As in I committed to my intention to visit the museum and made nearly a complete day of it by the length of my wait.

Frida Kahlo Museum
Buy your ticket in advance.

This is SO important!! Even if you don’t have a printer, no worry! You can download electronic versions of your ticket/s and they have devices to scan from your phone. Pre-purchasing your ticket (you’ll select from available time slots) is going to be the difference of waiting 15-30 minutes for your queue and four hours. Yes, I waited FOUR HOURS because I wasn’t sure if I could bring an electronic ticket. Don’t be like me. By the ticket in advance!

Casa Azul Frida Kahlo Museum

If you want to take pictures, you need a special picture fee. 

You need to pay an additional fee if you want to take pictures. There are docents and attendants throughout the museum and they will check to see if you have a photography pass. The cost of the pass is fairly minimal (about $30.00 pesos).

The house portion of the museum is set up to direct the traffic and flow in pretty much a single direction. Don’t expect to be able to navigate through the house freely. The courtyard and other structures have more freedom in flow.

Frida Kahlo Museum

“I am that clumsy human, always loving, loving, loving. And loving. And never leaving.” ~Frida Kahlo

I am so happy I went even though I waited four hours to gain entrance! 

If you love her work, I highly recommend you make a visit to the Frida Kahlo Museum. I believe you will walk away with a deeper appreciation and understanding of her life.  

Museo Frida Kahlo

If you are able to get an early admission, you are already a majority of the way to Xochimilco, so you can ride your Frida high on the ancient canals and get serenaded by mariachis. 

Frida Kahlo Museum

XO, Jennifer

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Gael Garcia Bernal Trump

Okay, disclosure: this week’s magnanimous man really is one of my crushes. Oh I do think Gael Garcia Bernal is quite the (talented, socially conscious, articulate, and) handsome fella.

The Oscars were a rather interesting event last night. I left the bar streaming the show after Emma Stone was announced so I missed all of the Best Picture kerfluffle. But, I did see Gael Garcia Bernal in his presentation During last night’s Oscars, I cheered and applauded when he spoke his criticism of the damn wall.

In case you didn’t get a chance to see, here is a clip:

“A lot of actors are migrant workers. We travel all over the world, we construct stories, we build life but cannot be divided. As a Mexican, as a Latin American, as a migrant worker, as a human being, I’m against any form of wall that separates us.”

His words and sentiment were unapologetically political and I value his decision to use this platform to usher the harsh criticism to the racist, xenophobic, and irresponsible rhetoric and actions of the current president – 45.

I’m against any form of wall that separates us.

I was planning to move to Mexico for my “sabbatical” before the election was even decided. It’s no coincidence I abandoned all of my staunch intentions to remain in the States until I defended my dissertation. After discussion with my mother, I bought a one way ticket to Oaxaca City from Kansas City on my birthday. The departure date was January 19, 2017.

How completely ignorant, racist, and ugly must we be to have accepted the rhetoric from Trump? Don’t forget – he called Mexicans “bad hombres” and drug dealers. And rapists. The same man who admitted – boasted about sexually assaulting numerous women. Wants to – nay – was rewarded for slandering an entire country of people. A country and people I embrace and love. I left my home country (which I love) because the hateful discourse and blanket acceptance of a person chosen to be our leader to the world.

But, before my coffee induced irritation builds, I’ll just leave with more crushing on Gael Garcia Bernal and wait for the next season of Mozart in the Jungle. This man is much more than an incredibly talented actor and intimidatingly handsome face. Past interviews of him show him to be thoughtful, passionate, intelligent, and a strong advocate for moral consciousness and social responsibility. Thank you, Gael, for reminding us what a good neighbor looks like and should be to one another.

Make this a good week, loves!

XO, Jennifer

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