Gael Garcia Bernal Trump

Okay, disclosure: this week’s magnanimous man really is one of my crushes. Oh I do think Gael Garcia Bernal is quite the (talented, socially conscious, articulate, and) handsome fella.

The Oscars were a rather interesting event last night. I left the bar streaming the show after Emma Stone was announced so I missed all of the Best Picture kerfluffle. But, I did see Gael Garcia Bernal in his presentation During last night’s Oscars, I cheered and applauded when he spoke his criticism of the damn wall.

In case you didn’t get a chance to see, here is a clip:

“A lot of actors are migrant workers. We travel all over the world, we construct stories, we build life but cannot be divided. As a Mexican, as a Latin American, as a migrant worker, as a human being, I’m against any form of wall that separates us.”

His words and sentiment were unapologetically political and I value his decision to use this platform to usher the harsh criticism to the racist, xenophobic, and irresponsible rhetoric and actions of the current president – 45.

I’m against any form of wall that separates us.

I was planning to move to Mexico for my “sabbatical” before the election was even decided. It’s no coincidence I abandoned all of my staunch intentions to remain in the States until I defended my dissertation. After discussion with my mother, I bought a one way ticket to Oaxaca City from Kansas City on my birthday. The departure date was January 19, 2017.

How completely ignorant, racist, and ugly must we be to have accepted the rhetoric from Trump? Don’t forget – he called Mexicans “bad hombres” and drug dealers. And rapists. The same man who admitted – boasted about sexually assaulting numerous women. Wants to – nay – was rewarded for slandering an entire country of people. A country and people I embrace and love. I left my home country (which I love) because the hateful discourse and blanket acceptance of a person chosen to be our leader to the world.

But, before my coffee induced irritation builds, I’ll just leave with more crushing on Gael Garcia Bernal and wait for the next season of Mozart in the Jungle. This man is much more than an incredibly talented actor and intimidatingly handsome face. Past interviews of him show him to be thoughtful, passionate, intelligent, and a strong advocate for moral consciousness and social responsibility. Thank you, Gael, for reminding us what a good neighbor looks like and should be to one another.

Make this a good week, loves!

XO, Jennifer

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Today is the final day of the first month in our new year. How are you checking in with your goals? I could be doing better, myself. But I refuse to let me berate and abuse what hasn’t been done (although my personal gap review is long – that’s the inveterate MBA in me speaking). Fact is, when reviewing my own goals check in this morning (yay for insomnia m while my progress is not as fast or far as I wanted, I’ve covered a lot of ground during these past 30 days. I have wins! And not of the tiger blood variety, either. I feel good enough to be encouraged but not cocky.
~My dissertation, all five chapters, is written. Fina-f*cking-Lutely! It’s a hotter mess than my sweat saturated ponytail after a #parytonabike spin class, but it’s written. I’m not saying I haven’t cried during edits. But it’s written!
~I went out on an limb and displayed great vulnerability at the expense of almost painful emotional discomfort in effort to break a haunting pattern. Twice. Wait… three times. In the moment of one particular ignorer of boundaries, instead of my usual pattern of annoyance > frustration > total devolution into emotional anger, I felt unf*ckwithable and held my boundary. Fact is, while a troll doesn’t deserve your kindness, you don’t deserve the emotional fallout of meeting him (or her) at that same level of petty disrespect.
~I relocated and am settling into my new city with lost in translation embarrassments every day.
~I marched in the Women’s March on Washington in my new home city and stood with other US expats among our Mexican neighbors in solidarity. We expected approximately 300 people to show up and march. Over 2,000 US and Canadian expats residing in Oaxaca along with tourists from other nationalities visiting the city who heard of the march showed up and marched with us. It was beautiful.

And there are more. But these… I’m most proud of and I’m not going to let energy spend dwelling on what wasn’t done. I’ll review and reset my priorities for February.

Because we get to start over every month, day, hour, minute. Every breath – in and or out – is an opportunity for a reset. There’s no rule stating when your revolution must begin. Isn’t that beauty-full?

Jack Keruoac - I saw that my life was a vast glowing empty page - goals check inNow, how are you checking in? What are your January wins?

XO, Jennifer

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The truth however ugly in itself, is always curious and beautiful to seekers after it. Agatha Christie quote

Good morning! In context of the need for us all to be truth seekers across all areas of our lives, here are some inspiring words for your day! “The truth, however ugly in itself, is always curious and beautiful to seekers after it.” Oh gosh, though, the truth can hurt. But, ultimately, the pain is less than being seduced, betrayed, and beaten with a lie. Oh, I could use a little bit of Miss Marple in my life right now. What about you?

Make this one a great one!

XO, Jennifer

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